Sunday, May 19, 2013

Teens, Dating and Abstinence Video


Explain the importance of communication in a teen relationship.


  • In the relationship, communication helps partners in the relationship to express his/her desires, needs, wants, concerns, and feelings. A lack of communication can result in unwanted sex, misunderstandings, a feeling of being used and could lead to things you don't want. Communication is important in a teen relationship as it sets boundaries in the relationship and allows you to have limits with what you don't and do feel comfortable with.


How does the media influence do to provide sexual stereotypes?



  • The media provides many sexual stereotypes which teenagers are exposed to over countless amounts of times a year. It shows two people having steamy moments quite early in their relationship without considering contraceptives and the possible after-affects of sex. According to the video, this leads teenagers into thinking that physical interaction and sex is acceptable and is wanted by their partner; which actually very rarely the case.


Explain 4 wrong reasons to have sex?

  • To impress someone or your partner
  • Peer pressure
  • Under the influence of drugs or alcohol
  • If you have been going out for a while and your partner thinks it is "time"

Friday, May 3, 2013

Stress Tips

Choose 5 that you have used before from the 2 page handout.

1: Sleep or sit down on the chair 

2: Listen to music

3: Exercise

4: Laugh

5: Prioritize 

Choose 2 that you will try in the future

1: Talk to people that you are close with. 

2: Make a list of how to prioritize. It's easier for you to organize yourself in this way.

I-Statements

I-Statements 

1. I feel frustrated when you give us a lot of homework because I have to study for a test tomorrow. I would like you to reduce the amount of homework that you give us.

2. I feel grateful when you give me good grades because I feel accomplished and that pays off everything I've done. I would like you to keep continue to do this. 

3. I feel left out when you don't invite me to your birthday party because I'm one of your best friend and best friends 

Stress - Portrait of a Killer

1. EXPLAIN the relationship between stress and hierarchy
From the video we watched in class, we can to the conclusion that stress is more common for those who are lower in the hierarchy or who are in multiple hierarchies. From the experiment of the baboons in Africa, we could see that there was one dominant male who was extremely carefree and expected everyone to follow him; he could pick a fight with those weaker than him and there was more aggression in the overall group of baboons. After that disease killed all of the dominant males in the group and left only the weaker, smaller baboons it was clear that there were now low levels of aggression with no alpha males around meaning that there was no stress in the group anymore. Also, with the experiment of the 28,000 British social workers, it was stated that diseases were more common for lower ranked people in the hierarchy. The women social worker who had more power stated that she had never been ill and had to miss work before, whereas the male social worker who was lower ranked (ranked 7) said he had been ill and missed work almost half the time he had been working which was three years. With this, we can see whoever is 'dominant' has low stress hormones and are healthier compared to people who are submissive who have high stress hormones. 

2. DESCRIBE the relationship between stress and control
This relates to the first one with social status and stress. The more control you have ( the higher you are in the hierarchy), the less stress there is since you get more freedom to think for yourself and your life. The goal should not be to get rid of stress, but to find the right time and to have control. There are two main types of stress, acute and chronic. Acute stress is more of a 'good stress' like stimulation; whereas chronic stress destroys bodies, minds and lives, it is the never ending stress which is extremely difficult to get away from if even possible to overcome. With stress, control is not an option. You can't choose when to get stressed or not, it will just happen and you will have to deal with it. Researchers in the video stated that in society every person is included in multiple hierarchies meaning it is more common for us to get stressed. We need to find control in our hierarchies in order to become less stressed; if we are submissive, we feel more stressed, and need to find another hierarchy to be dominant in in order to ease the stress. Overall from the video I can conclude, we can't control how much stressed we become we can only try to avoid getting stressed by making ourselves feel more important in other things. 

 3. LIST the physical problems the 5 scientific studies have linked with stress.
  • Depression
  • Heart diseases
  • High blood pressure/heart attack
  • Poor judgement
  • Aches and pains
  • Diarrhea or constipation
  • Frequent colds